It is my experience that there is very little
difference between most public and private schools. Kids are
kids no matter what school they attend. Private schools can
pick and choose their students, based on their criteria, but
once teenagers are socialized and grouped together, their
behaviors are pretty much the same.
Private schools can differ in their curriculum. Religion
can be taught and some subjects that may not be offered in
public schools may be offered at certain private institutions.
I'm not comparing the educational benefits of either private
or public schools, but I have found that schools, in general,
aren't teaching kids the things that they really need to know
in order to survive and thrive in today's society. How often
will you be asked in your lifetime, "What year did Christopher
Columbus discover America?" Or, "When did World
War II start and end?" Will you ever be asked to name
all of the presidents that have ever served in office? Or
to parse a sentence, labeling the parts of speech? Not unless
you plan on teaching these subjects. It is likely that most
people will never use 90% of the information that is taught
in school. It certainly doesn't hurt to know as much as possible,
however, the brain can only retain a certain amount of information
and the best time to absorb this information is when you are
young.
I believe that children would be better prepared for life
away from home if some basic knowledge was given to them prior
to graduation. Knowledge that most people must obtain after
their school years are over, when they venture out into the
real world.